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      <image:title>Blog - Ask Michaela: Clit vs. Tongue Penetration—What’s the Secret to Great Head? - Thanks so much for writing in with this! I love getting questions like this because there is SOO much advice out there about what women want in bed, which can leave you confused about what techniques to use.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Before diving into the question, a quick reminder for everyone reading: if you have any questions you would like answered about sex, intimacy, relationships, masturbation or what happens in a sex coaching session, you can submit these anonymously through the Ask Michaela page. Now, let’s unpack this question and how to create a mind-blowing experience when you are giving a vulva owner oral</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Ask Michaela: Why have I lost interest in sex with my partner when I'm still deeply in love? - Thanks for asking! I love receiving these questions. This is a common struggle that people find themselves in during long-term relationships.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Before diving into the question, a quick reminder for everyone reading: if you have any questions you would like answered about sex, intimacy, relationships, masturbation, or what happens in a sex coaching session, you can submit these anonymously through the Ask Michaela page. Please note: The insights in this post offer generic advice. Because everyone is different, and their relationship history is unique, I recommend booking a Foundation Session if you want to safely unpack your situation.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I use a vulva pillow and a penis model on camera to show you what mapping, arousal, or strokes look like. These physical props provide a clear visual reference to pair directly with my verbal instructions, allowing you to see the techniques mapped out in real time. Using these educational tools removes ambiguity, making the anatomy education practical and easy to comprehend.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - What is a somatic sex coach? - Photo of Michaela Tutty, Certified Somatic Sex Coach and Sexologist in New Zealand. Click here to learn about me and my approach.</image:title>
      <image:caption>When I first discovered that somatic sex coaching was a potential career path, it was a lightbulb moment for me. I instantly knew it was my calling. Since my early primary school days, I have been absolutely fascinated by how human bodies work and how we form relationships. As I moved through high school and university, that curiosity only grew, naturally expanding into a deep interest in human sexuality, eroticism, and intimacy. I came to this work because I believe everyone deserves a space to explore their intimacy completely free from judgment, pressure, and shame. In my practice, I often find that the shame clients carry is not actually theirs to hold. It is a weight built up from external messages received growing up from family, friends, and the media. By gently letting go of that external shame, you can finally feel lighter and free to explore your true eroticism. Because this work involves navigating both the mind and the body, I bridge my academic background in psychology with specialised, certified training in somatic sexology. My psychology degree provided me with knowledge of human behaviour and analytical skills, which help me understand your mental blocks quickly, while the somatic tools work to unlock the body. When you work with me, you are supported by a solid foundation of professional qualifications: Bachelor of Arts in Psychology: Giving me a strong understanding of human behaviour, mental processes, and relationship dynamics. Certified Somatic Sex Coach: Explicitly trained to guide clients through the physical, embodied practices of breath, movement, touch, sound, and awareness. Registered SSEAA Member: Proudly registered with the Somatic Sex Educators Association of Australasia, ensuring my practice adheres to a strict professional code of ethics. IICT Approved: Recognised by the International Institute for Complementary Therapists. This background allows me to hold a safe, trauma-informed, and collaborative space where you can confidently explore your intimacy, lessen your blocks, and expand your capacity for pleasure.</image:caption>
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