Hey, I’m Michaela.
I provide 1:1 Somatic Sex Coaching for sex workers across New Zealand and abroad. Whether you are considering entering the industry, actively working, or a seasoned veteran, this space is tailored to support your wellbeing, boundaries, and personal sovereignty.
What is a Somatic Sex Coach? A Somatic Sex Coach is a practitioner who educates and guides individuals or couples to improve their intimacy, communication and sexual wellbeing through goal-oriented and practical strategies.
As a certified somatic sex coach, I help people identify their goals to do with sex, intimacy and eroticism and help them to achieve these goals through psycho education and body-based practices. Together, we will work on dismantling limiting beliefs and moving through intimacy blocks, creating safety, and separating your home and work sex life + more. Whatever you’re aiming for or moving through, your experience is worthy of support.
What Happens in a Session?
Intention Setting
Together, we will briefly set an intention for the session ahead. Common intentions include establishing boundaries, reclaiming pleasure, processing work dynamics, or building a practice to separate your work and home sex life.
A somatic practice
I offer a guided somatic practice to begin our session. The practice will be tailored to the intention and will include the 5 somatic tools: breath, movement, sound, touch and awareness. Somatic practices allow you to drop out of your head and into your body and supports being in the present moment.
Goal-based Discussion
Together, we will celebrate your wins, confront limiting beliefs, and work through blocks. I offer psycho-sexual education, reflect on patterns or blind spots, and help you create practices so that you can integrate your learning into your daily life.
Habit Check-ins
The habits and routines surrounding your work can either support your nervous system or lead to burnout. We check in on your daily rituals, screen time, scheduling, and boundary habits to identify what is serving you versus what is draining your capacity, replacing harmful patterns with practices that keep you safe and nourished.
Work-Life Separation Practices
We can develop tailored practices to help you step into your work persona and then fully leave it behind when you step back into your personal life
Accountability
We will set goals together, and I’ll help you stay on track and remind you of your progress for the duration of our work together.
Session Recaps
After every session, I send a session recap. This provides a summary of our session, relevant affirmations, extra resources, suggested homework, and more.
Who is this Service for?
This offering is open to anyone curious about, actively working in, or retiring from sex work.
Please note: I offer a safe, confidential, and professional space. There is no nudity, erotic services, or hands-on touch in these coaching sessions. If you are seeking erotic fulfilment, this service is not a fit.