Referrals for Professional Online Sex Coaching Services
Welcome.
Whether you are an individual looking to get out of your head and into your body during sex, or a healthcare practitioner seeking specialised somatic support for a client, this page is designed for you
I provide a safe, trauma-informed, online space blending evidence-based sexological frameworks, nervous system mapping, and body-positive sex education.
All sessions are online, fully clothed, and hands-off
What is Somatic Sexology?
Somatic sexology supports people in understanding and expanding their sexual well-being through both the body and the mind. Rather than treating sexual concerns as purely cognitive, this work focuses on breath, sensation, movement, arousal patterns, and embodied awareness.
Through education, coaching, and practical skill-building, clients learn to regulate their nervous system, unlearn sexual shame, and create a lasting relationship with pleasure.
Tools & Techniques used in session
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Structured, non-outcome-oriented touch exercises are guided for clients to practice as out-of-session homework.
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Practical body-based practices using breath, movement, sound, awareness, and touch help regulate the nervous system, lower anxiety, and transition from performance mode to being present and connected.
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Evidence-based education utilising anatomical models to deconstruct societal scripts, porn-based performance standards, and common myths.
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Polyvagal-informed mapping to help clients identify physiological cues of safety, protective stress responses, and pleasure pathways.
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Techniques tailored to intimacy and sexual wellness to address overthinking, bedroom people-pleasing, and rigid expectations.
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Experiential communication tools help clients and partners recognise, honour, and voice boundaries, desires, and active consent.
Areas of Support
Sexual desire: desire discrepancy (aka mismatched libido), changes in desire, sexual frequency concerns
Individual inquiries: sexual confidence, dating confidence, sexual stress or anxiety, feeling more present during sex, orgasm concerns, anatomy & pleasure, eroticism & sexuality
Relationship dynamics: Communication skills, creating safety, learning about each other’s needs, having better sex, exploring new things, boundaries & consent, expressing & voicing desires.
Sexual Function: premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, pre-orgasmia, difficulties with orgasm & climax, performance anxiety
Painful sex: Vaginismus, general pain and discomfort, fear of pain leading to anxiety around sex
Can't figure out whether your concern falls into these areas? Get in touch & I'll point you in the right direction
Suitable:
✔ Clients seeking educational/experiential support
✔ Clients who have the capacity for self-reflection
Not Suitable:
✗ Clients in crisis
✗ Clients seeking physical sexual services
✗ Clients experiencing current trauma
Sessions are delivered online via Zoom. Michaela is based in Taupō and sees clients from across New Zealand and other international regions, excluding the United States of America
Referral Process
Adults may self-refer, or health professionals may submit a referral with client consent.
All enquiries are reviewed to ensure suitability within scope.
Clients will be contacted directly within 2–3 business days.
If the service is not appropriate, alternative support pathways may be recommended.
Urgent or crisis situations should be directed to appropriate emergency or specialist services.
Complete the Referral form below:
If you are ready to begin and prefer to book your initial session now without a formal referral, you can do so here:
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Certificate in Somatic Sex Coaching – Institute of Somatic Sexology
Bachelor of Arts (Psychology) – Massey University
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Psychological Treatment for Dyspareunia - Institute of Sexual Health Psychology (ISHPA)
Psychological Treatment for Erectile Dysfunction - Institute of Sexual Health Psychology (ISHPA)
Psychological Treatment for Anorgasmia - Institute of Sexual Health Psychology (ISHPA)
Introduction: Therapy Foundational Skills - The Institute of Sexual Health Psychology Australia (ISHPA)
Introduction: A Psychological Approach to Sex Therapy - The Institute of Sexual Health Psychology Australia (ISHPA)
Heart of Relationships (2-Day Workshop) – Halko Weiss & Maci Daye (Hakomi Pacifica)
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Professional Member of the Somatic Sex Educators Association of Australasia
Sex & Intimacy Consultant – International Institute for Complementary Therapists
Member of the Somatic Sexologists Aotearoa
Contact me
Email: michaela@desirepathways.co
Response time: 1–3 business days
Note: Because of the nature of this work, emails may occasionally go to spam or junk folders. If you are expecting a reply, please check these regularly.