Somatic Sex Coaching for People with Penises

Think of our Foundation Session as a comfortable space where we lay the groundwork for everything to come. It’s less about jumping straight into deep work and more about getting on the same page and making sure you feel confident before you commit to ongoing sessions.

Here is a look at what we will do together:

• Set your goals: We’ll talk about where you are right now and where you want to go in terms of your sexuality.

• Establish Our Partnership: We’ll look at how we team up. My role as your coach is to guide you, hold a safe space, and offer tools. Your role is to show up as honestly as you can, participate, and try out tools between our sessions.

• Introduce Your Somatic Toolkit: We will explore the 5 Somatic Skills that we’ll use throughout our time together:

  • Awareness

  • Breath

  • Sound

  • Touch

  • Movement

• Housekeeping: We’ll quickly go over the practical things, like scheduling, how we check in with each other between sessions, and standard confidentiality and cancellation policies

By the end of our time, the admin stuff will be out of the way, you’ll have a clear sense of the tools we'll use, and we will be completely ready to begin the work towards your dream sex life!

No, there is no nudity involved. Any practices that I recommend will be practised on non-erotic body parts during our sessions. You can then explore them in private, and we will explore how it went at the start of our next session.

Not at all. This coaching is primarily about your personal relationship with your own body, desire, and pleasure. While we can bring a partner into the process if you choose, the foundation of this work is entirely focused on you.

Absolutely. A lot of this work centres on your personal relationship with your body, unlearning porn conditioning, and building internal presence. You don't need to be in a relationship to build sexual confidence and body awareness.

Because we are unlearning deep conditioning and rewriting how you connect with your body, this work takes time. Though everyone’s journey is different, most clients find that committing to a series of sessions allows for the deeper, lasting integration needed to achieve their goals.

Individual Pathway

We begin every coaching relationship with a 30-minute Foundations Session ($50 NZD) to discuss your goals and ensure we are a good fit. From there, you can choose the path that best suits your flow:

• Pay-As-You-Go:$180 NZD per 60-minute session. This path offers complete flexibility, allowing you to book and pay for individual sessions as you need them.

• 4-Session Bundle:$550 NZD total. If you prefer structure and continuity, you can commit to a 4-session package. Because you have already completed your foundation call, your $50 fee is credited directly toward this package, bringing your remaining investment to $500 NZD.

Relational Pathway

• Pay-As-You-Go: $290 NZD per 90-minute session. This option allows you both to book and pay for your joint sessions one by one, moving entirely at your own pace with the spaciousness of a full 90-minute session.

• 4-Session Relational Bundle: $850 NZD total. Couples looking for dedicated focus and consistency can transition to a hybrid package that balances shared space with individual exploration. This includes two 60-minute individual sessions (one for each partner) and two 90-minute joint sessions. Your $50 foundations fee is credited directly toward this package, leaving a remaining investment of $800 NZD.

Yes, 100%. All sessions, intake details, and communications are confidential. Your privacy and safety are paramount in this practice.

Sex therapy typically focuses on diagnosing and treating psychological blocks, dysfunction, or past trauma through talk therapy. Somatic sex coaching is present-focused, collaborative, and body-centred. We focus on embodiment, education, and actionable practices to help you expand your capacity for pleasure and presence.