Meet Michaela Tutty

Certified Somatic Sex Coach & Sexologist

Michaela Tutty, a certified somatic sex coach and sexologist in New Zealand, wearing a white outfit and smiling while leaning against a large tree during a golden hour outdoor photoshoot.
“My work centres on consent, connection, pleasure, and presence, using somatic tools to help you safely return to your body. Together, we focus on how you can bring these principles into your daily life and relationships”
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Is This You?

Sexuality and intimacy rarely look like a straight line. You might be looking for support if you are:

  • Feeling disconnected from your body or struggling to feel present during intimate moments.

  • Navigating changes in desire, libido differences, or feeling stuck in routine with a partner.

  • Ready to move past "shoulds". Letting go of societal expectations around sex to discover what actually feels safe and fulfilling to you.

  • Seeking a safe, non-judgmental space to explore boundaries, consent, and deeper connection.

Book your Foundation Session
Book your Foundation Session

Finding Your Pathway

The name Desire Pathways represents a simple truth: your way of experiencing pleasure and connection does not have to look like anyone else's. This work isn't about forcing you into a single destination. It's about exploring the specific pathways that feel natural to you or your relationship's sexual wellbeing.

Whether we work together through individual support or couples coaching, my goal is to help you safely navigate the dynamics of your own desire using evidence-based, somatic tools and practical exercises.

Explore the Pathways
Explore the Pathways
Michaela Tutty, a certified somatic sexologist in New Zealand, smiling in a white dress while standing in a grassy field alongside the scenic waters of Lake Taupō
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My Approach to Somatic Sexology & Intimacy Coaching

I’ve always been deeply curious about human connection. Since primary school, I’ve been interested in understanding how we relate to ourselves and each other—a drive that naturally led me to study psychology at Massey University and train as a Somatic Sex Coach.

I believe true transformation happens when we bridge mind and body. Everything I introduce in my coaching sessions is grounded in evidence-based somatic practices that I personally explore and integrate into my own life.

All coaching sessions are online, fully clothed, hands-off, and grounded in trauma-informed consent practices.
Michaela Tutty, Certified Somatic Sex Coach, laying on green grass with her eyes closed, wearing a white dress, in a relaxed and peaceful pose.

Outside of Being a Sex Coach

When I’m not working with individuals and couples, I focus on living by the same principles of presence, pleasure, and connection that I share with my clients. Everything I introduce in my sex coaching sessions is a practice I have personally explored and integrated into my life. You will usually find me:

  • By the water: Making the most of living near Lake Taupō, walking along the lake, and catching the sunset to recharge.

  • Expanding my knowledge: Constantly reading, learning, and researching new insights within the world of sexuality and human intimacy.

  • Unwinding at home: Lighting my favourite candles, putting on a Taylor Swift album, and curling up with a great romantasy novel.

  • With my support system: Spending slow, intentional time catching up and laughing with close friends and family.

Living room with a yellow sofa, a dark gray armchair with decorative pillows, a laptop on the sofa, and a large indoor plant next to a window.
Referral Information

  • Certificate in Somatic Sex Coaching – Institute of Somatic Sexology

    Bachelor of Arts (Psychology) – Massey University

  • Psychological Treatment for Erectile Dysfunction - Institute of Sexual Health Psychology (ISHPA)

    Psychological Treatment for Anorgasmia - Institute of Sexual Health Psychology (ISHPA)

    Introduction: Therapy Foundational Skills - The Institute of Sexual Health Psychology Australia (ISHPA)

    Introduction: A Psychological Approach to Sex Therapy - The Institute of Sexual Health Psychology Australia (ISHPA)

  • Professional Member of the Somatic Sex Educators Association of Australasia

    Sex & Intimacy Consultant – International Institute for Complementary Therapists

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