Welcome to the Desire Pathways Blog
Here, Somatic Sexologist and certified somatic sex coach Michaela Tutty answers the burning questions submitted to the ‘Ask Michaela’ feature of the website.
She additionally writes about what happens in sessions, what sexual issues sex coaching can help with and other areas of sex, relationships and intimacy that pique her interest.
How do I find the right Sex Coach for me?
How do you find a safe, qualified sex coach? Explore 5 key things to check (from credentials and modality to ethical boundaries) before booking your first session.
Ask Michaela: How to Approach Your Partner During a Relationship Dry Spell
Navigating a multi-month relationship dry spell can feel isolating, but understanding your desire dynamics is the first step toward reclaiming your connection. By introducing low-pressure check-ins and prioritising goal-free somatic touch, you can safely dismantle performance anxiety and invite genuine intimacy back into your partnership. Read on for practical communication tips and body-first strategies to help you and your partner.
Ask Michaela: During sessions, do you give demonstrations?
Curious about how body-based sex and intimacy coaching works in practice? Let’s pull back the curtain on how demonstrations work, what safety boundaries are always in place, and what you can expect in a coaching session.
Navigating Mismatched Desire: A Somatic Approach to Reconnection
Stuck in a loop of mismatched desire? Discover three practical somatic sexology tools to break the cycle, lower pressure, and rebuild relationship intimacy together.