Spit doesn’t Replace Lube
Using spit as a quick fix when dry is incredibly common, but saliva is 99% water and evaporates almost instantly. From painful friction to hidden infection and STI risks, discover why your body deserves an upgrade from saliva, and how reframing the "lube interruption" opens up new tracks to deeper somatic pleasure and connection.
Ask Michaela: Clit vs. Tongue Penetration—What’s the Secret to Great Head?
A reader asks how to balance tongue penetration with clitoral focus during oral sex. We unpack the anatomy of "shallowing," why 70-80% of vulva owners need external stimulation to climax, and how a somatic approach can take the pressure off the "finish line."