Welcome to the Desire Pathways Blog
Here, Somatic Sexologist and certified somatic sex coach Michaela Tutty answers the burning questions submitted to the ‘Ask Michaela’ feature of the website.
She additionally writes about what happens in sessions, what sexual issues sex coaching can help with and other areas of sex, relationships and intimacy that pique her interest.
The Skill of Orgasm: Overcoming Anorgasmia with Somatic Sex Coaching
Reaching regular orgasms is a learnable skill. Learn how somatic sex coaching uses body-based tools to help you get out of your head, release tension, and unlock pleasure.
Overcoming Painful Sex Through Somatic Coaching
Sex shouldn't hurt. Explore how somatic sex coaching helps you rebuild safety, regain control, and integrate arousal to overcome dyspareunia and reclaim pleasure.
Ask Michaela: Why Can I Squirt During Masturbation but Not With a Partner?
Experiencing a shift in pleasure when moving from solo play to sex with a partner is common. Discover the two main reasons why squirting or ejaculating can be harder to achieve with a partner, from emotional safety to set pleasure pathways, and how to bridge the gap.
Navigating Early Ejaculation Through Somatic Sex Coaching
Struggling with early ejaculation? Learn how somatic sex coaching helps you tune into your body's subtle arousal cues, regulate your nervous system, and build lasting ejaculatory control.
Struggling to Orgasm? How Somatic Sex Coaching Can Help
If you find it difficult to reach an orgasm despite feeling highly aroused, you are not broken, and you are not alone. Discover how somatic sex coaching can help you work directly with your body and nervous system to build the psychological safety, relaxation, and physical connection needed to experience orgasm