Welcome to the Desire Pathways Blog
Here, Somatic Sexologist and certified somatic sex coach Michaela Tutty answers the burning questions submitted to the ‘Ask Michaela’ feature of the website.
She additionally writes about what happens in sessions, what sexual issues sex coaching can help with and other areas of sex, relationships and intimacy that pique her interest.
Ask Michaela: Advice on doing anal after a bad experience
Rebuilding safety around anal sex after a bad experience requires tuning into your body first. Learn how to distinguish an embodied "yes" from pressure, communicate clear boundaries, and explore anal pleasure on your own terms.
Ask Michaela: Why You're More Turned On By Escorts Than Hookups
Why does seeing an escort often trigger more turn-on than dating or casual hookups? In this Ask Michaela post, we strip away the stigma to explore how transactional boundaries protect your autonomy, why novelty sparks a surge of dopamine and adrenaline, and how to bring that same clarity into your dating life.