Rebuilding safety around anal sex after a bad experience requires tuning into your body first. Learn how to distinguish an embodied "yes" from pressure, communicate clear boundaries, and explore anal pleasure on your own terms.

What happens after climax? When intimacy ends as soon as the man finishes, both partners miss out on a deeper connection. Explore how redefining "sex" and understanding your body's nervous system can transform your intimate life.

Worried your self-pleasure habits are affecting your sexual performance or relationship intimacy? Certified sex coach Michaela Tutty explores the science behind masturbation frequency, performance anxiety, and how to cultivate a shame-free solo practice.

Why does seeing an escort often trigger more turn-on than dating or casual hookups? In this Ask Michaela post, we strip away the stigma to explore how transactional boundaries protect your autonomy, why novelty sparks a surge of dopamine and adrenaline, and how to bring that same clarity into your dating life.

"I lost my confidence after my ex came out to me." In this Ask Michaela Q&A, we explore practical tools and somatic exercises to unpick performance anxiety, establish low-stakes boundaries, and reclaim your sexual agency.

Ever found yourself counting light fixtures or trying to feel less during sex just to delay a climax? In this Ask Michaela edition, I break down why quick-fix distraction tactics fail, how your nervous system's "brakes and accelerators" work, and 3 evidence-based somatic tools to help you stay present and confident.