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Ask Michaela: Rebuilding Sexual Confidence After an Ex Comes Out
"I lost my confidence after my ex came out to me." In this Ask Michaela Q&A, we explore practical tools and somatic exercises to unpick performance anxiety, establish low-stakes boundaries, and reclaim your sexual agency.
Ask Michaela: Why Can I Squirt During Masturbation but Not With a Partner?
Experiencing a shift in pleasure when moving from solo play to sex with a partner is common. Discover the two main reasons why squirting or ejaculating can be harder to achieve with a partner, from emotional safety to set pleasure pathways, and how to bridge the gap.
Finding New Tracks to Pleasure: Why I Started Desire Pathways
If you have ever felt stuck in your head during intimacy, you aren't broken. You are likely just stuck in a survival response. In this post, I share my personal journey from survival to true agency, and explain why I started Desire Pathways to help others map out entirely new tracks to pleasure.